Friday, December 14, 2012

In Defense of Geeks:


I would be remiss if this blog did not include a brief discussion of the difference between a “geek” and a “nerd.” While the two terms are used interchangeably by some (ie: computer geek/nerd), there is a marked difference among those of us to whom the terms apply.

Nerd: According to Dictionary.com, a nerd is “an intelligent but single-minded person obsessed with a nonsocial hobby or pursuit”
Ouch! The internet sure is mean… but if you didn’t know that already you must be new here. Basically a nerd is book smart and lacking in social skills. Lately hipsters and the like have begun to embrace the term with cute girls on Facebook wearing “I <3 nerds” shirts, but we all know they don’t really mean it:


Seriously now, I wish society would fully embrace the nerd in all its awkward glory, but alas the stars have not aligned.

Geek: “a computer expert or enthusiast (a term of pride as self-reference, but often considered offensive when used by outsiders.)”
A geek is similar to a nerd in their perceived lack of social skills and love of “nonsocial” hobbies, but the difference lies in the kind of hobbies. My husband (henceforth to be referred to as the Alpha Geek) explains the difference in simple terms as “tech vs. non-tech.” Nerds typically find enjoyment in books and roleplaying games where geeks enjoy computer or console based activities.

For example: the best thing about the Alpha Geek’s day was getting his Nintendo Platinum Reward: Mario themed playing cards. A nerd would be much happier with a new pack of “Magic: The Gathering” cards.

Now, that is not to say there isn’t ever any overlap. I myself am a fairly equal blend of both varieties of the social outcast… much to the chagrin of the Alpha Geek. I enjoy a game of D&D as well as a game of Super Smash Bros about equally; however, it is on behalf of the geeks that I make the distinction so the pride of the gamer will not be sullied by their association with the nerd.

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